My partner quipped that they learn the same way everyone else does – a priest or teacher! I found that really funny although I do know how sensitive the topic is! I first spoke about what we can learn about sex from gay men at Sexpo London many years ago. I mean have you ever seen a book called 101 Sex Positions for Women having sex with women or Men having sex with men? Having sex as a heterosexual couple is complicated enough so how does one go about learning about sex as a homosexual couple? My partner and I were discussing how much we know about ‘gay’ sex.